Relationships

A healthy relationship can leave you feeling on top on the world. However, a relationship that isn’t working can leave you feeling drained and stressed. I’ve personally been in both types of relationships. Relationships are an investment; but without building a stable foundation it’s likely for your investment to crumble between your fingertips.

Everybody’s relationships are unique but knowing a few key tips can keep your relationship thriving and well nourished. So here are a few tips that I've learned over the years. However, I must admit that these tips are easier said than done. But the best things in life aren't worth it without applying a little bit of work and effort!! ^_^

Communicating with one another. Honest and direct communication is the key to any relationship. Communication can keep confusion down and when both people feel comfortable expressing their needs, fears and desires, trust and bonds are strengthened.

Staying involved with each other. Some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance. When you need to talk about something important, the connection and understanding may no longer be there.

Getting through conflict. The key in a strong relationship is not to be fearful of conflict. It’s best to work on your problems as they occur so your partner can understand the issue and hopefully resolve the dilemma right away. Both parties need to feel safe to express things that bother them without fear of retaliation.

Keeping outside relationships and interests alive. No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Clinginess can push your partner away but having friends and outside interests not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to the relationship, too.

Spending quality time together. When you first start dating everything is new, fun, and exciting. In the beginning, your learning things about each other, going on dates frequently, staying up all night on the phone, and simply spending a lot of time dedicated towards the relationship. However, as time goes by, the honeymoon period ends. Reality steps into play and demanding jobs, children, long commutes, time with friends, different hobbies and other obligations can make it hard to find time together. But it is critical for you to make time just for your relationship. If you don’t have quality time, communication and misunderstandings start to erode.

I hope you find these tips helpful to your relationship!!! 

Ashley